There's good news and bad news. The good news is that evidence suggests that couples who adopt have a lower than average divorce rate... but, of course, it does occur. The bad news is that adopted children have already suffered loss, and a divorce will, no matter how amicable, mark yet another loss. As you go through this stressful process, you must continue parenting.
Divorce After Adoption: Practical Tips for Parents dispells some of the myths about adoption and divorce, and offers suggestions and "to do" lists to help you maintain your balance and meet your child's emotional needs.